Speak to me..

I dont get why it has to end on 1 year?

Well its coincidental that tomorrow marks the day we have being going out for a year.

And I said it would piss me off if we didn't meet the mark.. so we just agreed..

But surely now its meaningless, if theres a set date for the end?

hey man.. I went through the same thing in May.

just watch it tho... cause it's really hard to get over someone still being "best friends".... the best thing you can do is not talk for a while.. I hear 6 weeks with no talk does it.

also getting laid helps, but that's up to you.


I'm sorry tho.. breaking up no matter waht the circumstances is never fun.

I'd like to think the time we spent together wasn't meaningless..

We were more than that.. its not like its over.. we were such a big part of eachothers lives..

I dont mean the time u spent together was meaningless, ofcourse it wasnt...or u wouldnt have lasted nearly a year. I mean the getting too a year point ism eaningless, as u r as good as split now. Sorry too sound harsh just didn't understand it.

And ofcourse the time u had wasn't meaningless, remmebr the good times.

It just makes sense to me to have it last the full year.. I don't know why..

the way I would look at this situation

will this matter to you in a few weeks time?

NO so fuck it moving on is hard but its right

what ever u do dont beg for her back , coz that be gay

dude, this is the best thing that ever happened to you, atleast she didn't get pregnant to keep a nigga! Just wear a condom, ALWAYS! and bang as many sluts as you can including those closest to your ex, best friends sisters, even her enemies! they love that! Do that till about 25 if you are where you wanna be in life, than find a steady girlfriend, but until! NO GIRLFRIENDS! the less amount of girlfriends you have the more chances you have to bang different pussy

FUCK YEAH JONNEH is hella smart, infact I wouldn't be friends with her at all, trust me if you have any friends........which I imagine you do, she's a bitch and a bitch is always gonna be a bitch, it's in their nature to hop to one of your friends, convenient, and than it's even easier to throw it in your face that shes with someone and your not, even if shes not a vengeful person........women are way more sensitive and hate seeing us with someone else more than we hate seeing them with another dude. gauranteed they are just engineered to care about things like that more. SO find a bitch as soon as you can just to hang out with and bang so you atleast feel decent when she runs a gang bang with all your boys

if its the girl in the sig...unlucky...but being her best friends with you will be tricky when shes seeing other guys and bring them round you....think about that

He dosent know the girl in the sig, I wish I did :,(

if its that girl in the picture I'm sure shes got some hot slut friends, they have probably been wanting to fuck you anyway since every girl is jealous of everything their friends have, so just get some roofies and have a fuck fest

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Guys last night was the hardest night of my life.

I don't know how long I can go on with this... I really miss her, and it's not as easy as to say "Get over it" because its so hard..

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We're here for you man. But really, the sooner you make friends with her, the easier the pang of heartache will go away. At least thats what happened wit me.

Okay things to try....

1. Just keep hanging out with friends go to cinema or whatever so your mind is on other things.

2.Try to be alone as little as possible. You will think about it the most.

3.Pretend You never went out.

4. Dont be best mates anyway. ignore her for a few months pretend she oesnt exsist then mak friends with her. By that time both of you would hae moved on.

5.Even if she wants to end it tellher how you feel, not ina begging way or anything just tell her. You wont have it on your chest and you wont have your feelings all trapt up.

6. Become gay?

7. Masterbate to your hearts content, think of all the plusses to beng single.

8. Dont go giving her presents or go begging her back becuase she will mot likley say no and you will be hurt more and become more obsessed.

9.Get completely wankered on silly little chick drinks.

10. Get stoned

11. Think of all the times shes pissed you off.

What the hell do I know....

But yeah Ring up your friends and ask them if you can just chill round there houses. Dont bring up the subject of your girl friend. Just try not to be alone mate.

Il always wub yoo. <3

My advice: Don't take life so seriously, especially at your age.

ok....I've gone thru this...friends doesn't always work...sometimes it can make you worse...like I totally thought I was over my gf when I broke up with her....anyway a few months past as being friends and I started to think about her heaps...like what if I still had feeling for her or whatever...and if she felt the same way....so anyway, me and my friends were meeting up with her and her friends one night...and I see her with a boyfriend....which cut me so bad...but bare in mind I also had a girlfriend, but it just brought up a lot of feeling I thought were gone but were not...anyway I couldnt handle it so I left...I'm still friends with her and we both have bf/gf....but every once in a while I think about her and the time we had together...and how I took it for granted and how good she treated me....so yeah...wow I sound like a fag....just thought I'd share my story...

nice story robism...

I still think about my gf I had when I was 16... she was perfect but she cheated on me twice... what a slut, she just couldnt help being a slut... but yeah... that's sad why did I tell that? I dont know...

To bad you guys dont get Tom Leykis out there...he has the solution to all these problems

I just need to take things one day at a time I suppose.

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