18 June 2005, 01:14 UTC#1
Ok well I aint feelin too great right now...things havn't been too good today. To start off one of my mates informed me that he was diagnosed as a skitzo which kinda freaked me out a bit. Then my other mate which I am gettin really worried about has been hittin the booze and cocaine pretty heavilly due to his dad bein an alcoholic and his folks probably splitting up coz of it. My mates and myself want to try and say somethin to him to get him to get out of this shit, am worried that he's just using the white stuff and drinkin from the time he gets up in the morning to escape from the shit in his life. But if we say anything he will get really pissed off at us for talkin behind his back, but am worried about him. If I say anything I will probs get a kickin big time off him. I really don't know what to do, a don't want 1 of my best mates turnin into an junkified alcoholic. Anyone got any advice, would be a big help. I am glad I can post this shizzle here and I'm sorry for going on like this, just a bit fucked up right now.
nico
18 June 2005, 01:21 UTC#2
dude, I had a similar problem once. my mate was doing the white stuff, and getting pretty rough on it to, I finally built up the confidence to say something to him, but he came to me 1st and basically quit right infront of me. so I can really give you any good advice as my mate realised what was gunna happen if he kept up. but if he wudnt have I was gunna say something. its best to show you care instead of hiding your feelings. if all else fails try get him to talk to a specialist about his life.
18 June 2005, 02:56 UTC#3
tell him to his face that he has to give up the powder,and that youre trying to help him as a friend ,and if you werent his friend you wouldnt have bothered helping him
18 June 2005, 04:34 UTC#4
if he's upset over his dad being an alcoholic, then why's he being a hypocrite and drinking to get away from drinking? wouldn't he not wanna be like his dad? no offense, but your friend needs to stop being a vagina and put up with his dad and family problems, maybe try talking to his parents about it, and if he can't do that, then find better friends who will actually be caring and talk to him and take his mind off problems instead of drugs. *hint hint* and if someone caring is a bad thing and makes him pissed, then he's a horrible friend.
18 June 2005, 14:12 UTC#5
okay that was a bit harshly said, but I guess you're right.
18 June 2005, 14:15 UTC#6
just being honest man, by the paragraph you typed, that was processed through my mind and I wasn't even trying to be harsh.
18 June 2005, 14:17 UTC#7
I agree with Adem, if he "kicks the shit" out of you for trying to help him, he sucks as a mate. You can't stop him from doing that shit, but you can try approaching the matter gently and make him realise what he is doing to himself
18 June 2005, 14:24 UTC#8
ok well ill try 2moro, no point tonight coz we're going out on a pub crawl so not a gd idea to say anything when he's pissed and with everyone else around.
18 June 2005, 17:52 UTC#9
QUOTE(Ding_Dong @ Jun 18 2005, 02:56 AM)
tell him to his face that he has to give up the powder,and that youre trying to help him as a friend ,and if you werent his friend you wouldnt have bothered helping him
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yeah say that man this is really serious
